I have been married for 8 years and we have kids together. He has never really appreciated me and I have tried so hard. I told him there were problems and he blew me off. I met this guy who built my confidence and helped me to become a strong, independent woman and my husband even noticed the change. Our talking got more and more serious and I tried to tell me husband and gives him a chance. I got nothing from him and then one night he realized that I ment that I wanted to leave him and that this other guy made me feel special. Now he wants to try, but I am not physically attracted to him and more. What should I do?