Not sure if this should go under a different category, but my anxiety has been off the hook.

It's been triggered by my homeless brother telling me he's really mad at me because I was abusive to him when he was little (and I was little) and then when I've been available to him to talk he's been unresponsive.

My uncle, who I distrust after he swindled my grandma-who-raised-me's will and took all of the property/inheritence, has been calling me about my brother's circumstance and mental health. He interjects himself into my life and tells me what he thinks I need to do with myself. I'm 30 years old!

I feel like my boundaries are bad and all this is really getting to me. I've been depressed but also just obsessively thinking about it all. I just want to hide and live my little peaceful life away from them all, but at the same time I'm worried about my brother.

I've been projecting and just walking on edge