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Originally Posted by Readytostop
Then she said i dont think most of this would apply to me... But she said that she has a certain number of spots for people at a reduced fee and that she trusts that i will pay more as I am able. she said that she doesnt think i would take advantage but then a few minutes later she said if i said i was going to Hawaii she might ask about that. She went on and on about the reason that she wants clients to tell her if their situation changed was so she could offer to someone else who needs it. But after all of the clarifying of each statement that "not that I think you would do that" or"I know I could trust you to tell me when the situation changed" and all she said she would check in every 2 or 3 months to see if my situation had changed..
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Yes, I would definitely be bothered, and confused. It seems to me like she's saying two different things at the same time. If she trusts you to let her know if things change, trusts that you won't take advantage of her, why go on and on, and then say she'd check in to see if things had changed. Frankly, I'd be p****d off. And the every other week thing bugs me, too. You've been going every week for nearly 2 months! Is she suddenly unaware of that, or that she told you before that weekly worked better for you?
If she really wants things to be clear, she should be professional and put it in writing, and have a "contract" that you could review and decide whether or not to sign it and accept it. That would be a "business-like" approach. Hope things work out well for you, whatever you decide.