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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
First off, I am not even sure unhelpable is a word but it's needed here!
As some of you know my first t terminated me out of the blue, this was a year and a half ago. I had no idea it was coming, she never explained why so last month I felt a great urge to find out why! I sent her an email asking could I go back to see her again- her response was short and curt.
She said;
I feel as though I have taken you as far as I can on your counselling journey- good luck for the future.
From this I get that she couldn't help me anymore, I suffered all of this time and she didn't even refer me or suggest somebody else knowing that I needed help but she couldn't help me! I am so mad over it because she made me feel like I wasn't doing the work, telling me I was not doing enough in her eyes and then she says that arghhh. I am confused all over again and angry.
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No one is "unhelpable", but not everyone can help us. Your T certainly had the right to terminate with you if she felt she could not help you, but she owed you an explanation as well as referrals to someone else. She acted very unprofessionally in all this and I would say that you are better off without her. Just look for someone else. Instead of moaning and groaning over what you have lost, get out there and start interviewing new T's. You'll find someone you can work with, though it may not be easy. Good luck to you.