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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
Hankster (and this is kind of a moot point as GeorgiaGirl has already explained more) I would argue that yes everyone would have a personal reaction in a professional environment when you know the person you're dealing with, but that can be okay and doesn't mean boundaries are threatened? So, in effect I see where it becomes the dual relationship, but not that the boundary line is automatically compromised by there being a dual relationship.
I don't know, I'm muddling myself the more I think of this!
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Are you assuming some action has to be taken because boundaries are compromised? I would say not; that as long as there is awareness and people talk about it, something " touching" the boundary doesnt automatically mean game over.
Also, I'm coming from a background of very weird boundaries. On the one hand, they were non-existent; on the other, they were huge. So trying to figure out normal is a task!