I am glad for you that your cancer is in remission.
Anytime a marriage breaks someone gets hurt, especially children. But I can understand how you couldn't stay with this woman. I wouldn't worry to much about what she is telling other, since you have no control over that. I hope that you have been able to mend fences with your children. Best wishes.
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"Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha