we are just humans and we all man/woman crave touch ,attention.Unfortunately life's mundane sucks us in and we dont realize that gift of Love and being in love needs constant nurturing to bloom and exist. We get side tracked easily when we are hurt,lonely or vulnerable(many times in most marriages).I do believe everyone at one point or the other wanted out of marriage or another soul to find solace in,we all have/had an opportunity and a chance to stray from marriage. That is an easy part. But,please,stop and think. will your new man/Love make you happy once you are not with your husband,will breaking family be something you can live with without giving it a good thorough chance,will you have remorse or guilt.g. I am not judging. Like many of us here I have been in similar situation,except we've never been alone ,never touched,but i had more connection with him than my H,he spoke to me more than my H.I felt i was becoming an emotional cheater,no matter how good did it make me feel, and I rejected his friendship,It took me good 7 years to get over it,no kidding,I realized I loved him. BUT,i stayed with my kids and husband,knowing well enough that I will not cheat and survive the cheating,I will try everything to keep the family alive,I will recreate the love if i can.we've been married 16 years,and I do not regret my decision of not turning my back on my family b/o another man,Do I miss love? yes,do i think my marriage is great ?no,but again ,no regrets on that decision.
So ,think before you jump into another relationship head first,it is hard,sometimes painful. Still,some marriages dont work,but stay honest to yourself and your partners..I am not judging or saying what to do,this is just my personal experience i thought I 'd share.
good luck to you ,and happiness