I am texting a lot at the moment as things are difficult. She doesn't seem to mind although she said she wouldn't reply. Just see you on xxx. I felt really disappointed last week when I kept getting this reply but I think I understand now that she won't go into things by text. However, I still feel it is really valid for me to tell her how bad things are when they happen otherwise by the time I see her I minimise it or just can't get the words out. But I do worry I am going to annoy her and overstep her boundaries. Thanks for this thread, really good.