I would love to say that he was being a bad father, but my mom and him split so we only had patches of time in which we lived together so he did not totally abandon me.
I agree tho, he still treats me like a child setting curfews and ect, I told him if I dormed like people usually do there wouldn't be this conversation.

He lived with his parents till he was 24 so I guess he's always used to having them around, but then again he's a hypocrite b/c he got to dorm during college.

Thank you for your advise. I'm trying to be mature and get a job to move out, my mom and financial aid will help, its just that I'm so scared to talk to him about leaving, I'm pretty sure that hell blow up and get emotional and I'm not ready to do that yet.