My husband initially went to a class for spouses that describes bp & how it affects one's life. He learrned a lot & he could see how much I improved on the meds. So much so that I think he forgot that I had bp & now thinks nothing of saying "go take another pill" if I'm upset about something or need to talk to him about what is bothering me.

He also forgot that I am still very sensitive to criticism even though I'm on meds that are helping me remain stable. He said a hurtful remark to me a few months ago & I ODed because of it. He SHOULD have a clue that I'm not "cured", that I need support & understanding from him.

So far, we're not even talking about the OD. We're just pretending it didn't happen which is not helping me to get over the bouts of depression I'm still getting. My meds have been adjusted & I'm back intherapy, but I need him to help me cope, too.--Suzy P.S. I have a friend whose son was diagnosed with bp after 3 suicide attempts while he was at college. His father just thinks the kid needs to "grow up" & take responsibility for his life. He doesn't believe in this mental illness stuff. His wife is handling it all on her own.