Have you explained to him that its not as easy as just never doing it? Even if you don't do it for the next few weeks or months, those urges are real and they don't just stop because one "wants to". I wish I had an easy solution for you but I honestly don't. *hugs* If you really want to stop, maybe ask him to stand behind you. Ask him to work on stopping a "bad habit" of his at the same time - make it a team effort. Support each other.