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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet
I am very submissive and my partner is dominant but lately she has told me she wants to change roles when we are having sex. This makes me nervous because being dominant doesn't really come natural to me. My first instinct was to ask my partner how she would like me to dominate her, but I reconsidered because asking her what she wants isn't very dominant.
So, I thought I'd crowd source. Females: how do you like to be dominated?
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First, I would ask her. Sex is something you should be able to openly discuss. I get why you posted here though.
I've been in relationships with very dominate men before and thought that I liked being tied up, helpless really. Pushed around in an aggressive way and basically treated as an object versus a person.
After being with my boyfriend (who is not into that, sees sex more intimate) I realized that I prefer sex that way too. This does not mean that he is not dominate however, it's just done a different way.
He controls the pace of sex, what positions we are in, how long the session is for but he does it in a more gentle and intimate way.
One thing I especially enjoy is his control of the pace of sex. We switch from a faster, harder pace to slow grinding where we shower each other with kisses. I know that he is in charge, but he is so gentle and loving that I really feel bonded in a way that is more than sex and this is how I prefer to be dominated.
Don't know if this helps, but it is a different perspective.
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