I am not going the route of the back together with the ex, route, here.

Does, she have kids with him? Was she allowing him, around her, because they have kids.

My exh, snooped on my phone, this summer. Trust me, he and I were far from an item, just shared kids! And he without a vehicle, relied on me, too much, for the transportation of the kids and him, to where they'd go.

So, he snooped on my phone, found texts between myself and my, at that point, new beau, a budding romance. My ex, started threatening me, my new man, etc etc. It all led up, to a couple weeks later, getting beaten up and pulled from my car, when he realized, that I would be travelling to meet my new man, and that the kids would be staying with my dad.

Has there been a history, of abuse(domestic violence), between herself and her ex? How long divorced? And, at least, for the sake of knowing she's alive and well, do you have the ability, to try, one more time?