simon........because i feel partly responsible for the current conflict i wanted to publically write and ask you to reconsider leaving....i have been at pc for a long time...every once in a while a conflict erupts.......after reading what doc john and kimmy have had to say..i realize that i handled things badly.......no mal intent was meant by me or anyone else......we all wanted to help heal the wounds of friends......hopefully we will use this experience to grow....hopefully if we all try.....we can still accomplish our original goal.......simon.....you re a valued member here......you are so not invisible.......you hold a very strong place in this community.....your words have helped many myself included.....i hope that if you really do feel the need to leave now that you will find a way to return to us very soon......you are loved here simon