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Originally Posted by CantExplain
To be attached and not know any thing about the object of your attachment - that's a very uncomfortable position to be in.
I never got used to it. In the end, it broke by attachment to Madame T. Luckily I am not very attached to Mr T.
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I do know a lot about my T; she's an open person. I'm glad that you don't have the attachment problems with Mr. T.
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Originally Posted by hankster
Were you getting that sinking feeling in your stomach again? Did it help stop that? What were you thinking before the feeling happened? -- these are the kinds of questions I would look to. That would track back to that previous session.
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I wish I could remember, hankster. I think I looked on PC but knew I couldn't post, so I looked at my emails but there wasn't anything interesting. So, maybe I just wanted to attach to someone I feel close to, like my T. But I so strongly wanted to find out something that I didn't know about her, which I did. Nothing too exciting, just a photo from a high school yearbook and her interests. I think it did stop that sinking feeling because I was so absorbed in my search. Interesting that this thread is embarrassing me!
I wish I wasn't so weird. I used the "googling" for check-in during DBT and I was also embarrassed because no one else talks about their T. I feel so weird. Guess I'm judging myself after all. Big time!