Yes FKM You are right, one of the things we talked about last session was my need for consistency, he even jokingly said something about hopefully having the same person everytime. But thats what I do everytime we begin a session I have to make sure the room is the same room and he hasn''t changed. It is disastrous when he changes his appearance. He had his haircut a couple of weeks ago and it shook me up a bit, I felt like asking him to give advance notice of any personal grooming changes he does. I realise this is unrealistic as I have no control over his personal life, but a bit of advance notice would help.

Thanks for your insight yet again FKM.