I agree with Asiablue, that's no friend you've got there. I think you should speak to your T about this. She is the professional in all of this and should fix the mess that's been created. It sounds like you were her first client and I wonder why she would give someone else preference over you? If T fails to take charge and let your friend go, then you may want to think of letting go yourself. You should not need to take on the worry of this 3 ring circus.