I just want to add to this. He's say with my alters a few times now because they did start coming out, and the ones he's met (2 of them) really respect him. I've had alters like and hate partners of mine but never respect. My "bad girl mean self destructive" personality actually calmed down, made a deal not to cut me and won't have sex with him because id be mad all because he said he wouldn't treat her like a monster. And he didn't. I'm not sure how long she'll keep those promises but she was honest in making them.