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Nov 24, 2013, 06:34 PM
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Member Since: Nov 2013
Location: Winthrop
Posts: 11
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Well, could have been much worse, than texting. I can appreciate, his being hurt by this. Need to answer, to yourself, why, a friendship, with your ex, was an important part of your life. What needs were being met there? That weren't being met, by your bf?
Not 'quite' cheating, per se; but it's certainly bordering on a fine line, of trust, in your relationship. Plus, took discovery, to find out about this friendship. As in, there was a certain lack of honesty.
Moving forward, will take more than words and apologies. Some reconnecting, with one another, could help. How about relationship counseling?
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My ex is very expressive of his feelings. He was always there to give me validation that i was wanted and desired. I only wanted to be desired by my boyfriend but he is not the type of man that goes and talks about his feelings all the time and honestly neither am i. I was just expecting him to voice how i already knew how he felt. I have stopped talking to my ex and told my ex that i really care about and love my boyfriend. My boyfriend keeps repeating that he doesn't want to think about it because he doesn't know how to feel besides betrayed and upset. Last night we had fun together talking about all the crazy things that have happened to us either together or not lol. It just reminded me how much i love him and why we are meant to be together. I feel in my heart that we are going to make it through this. I just don't know how valid it is.
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