Anony, Wow you sure are worrying a lot about "others" be they family or whoever. You know we;ll all on this earth and all have the same chances,ablitys sucesses, wants, disappointments and dreams. Sometimes we get to do all these things, sometimes we dont, I dont think its up to you to make dreams come true for others or to take on their finances, though it feels that way, normally if been raised to believe its our responsibilty. This is your time, your life, your chance and as you know, that is sometimes "enought" of a responsibilty.

I hope you find a solution to your problems soon and I hope things ease for you emtionally.

Take care