First, I would ask her. Sex is something you should be able to openly discuss. I get why you posted here though.

I've been in relationships with very dominate men before and thought that I liked being tied up, helpless really. Pushed around in an aggressive way and basically treated as an object versus a person.

After being with my boyfriend (who is not into that, sees sex more intimate) I realized that I prefer sex that way too. This does not mean that he is not dominate however, it's just done a different way.

He controls the pace of sex, what positions we are in, how long the session is for but he does it in a more gentle and intimate way.

One thing I especially enjoy is his control of the pace of sex. We switch from a faster, harder pace to slow grinding where we shower each other with kisses. I know that he is in charge, but he is so gentle and loving that I really feel bonded in a way that is more than sex and this is how I prefer to be dominated.

Don't know if this helps, but it is a different perspective.

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