I know exactly what you mean Daeva, I have said before that unless a person has been depressed they don`t know what it`s like. I mean nothing anyone can say will help. All the "pull yourself together" cliches just serve to make you/me angry, we get annoyed because we have already thought those things, like must carry on for the kids` sake, etc, so we take peoples well meant "advice" as an insult, as if we haven`t the capacity to think. Just my opinion, regards Dionysius.