My mom always plopped it out and just cut it up.
I've never seen anyone stir it up. Probably why your friend stared at you, lol Don't worry, though. I'm sure there's no rule about it.
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Love is..
a baby smiling at you for the first time
a dog curling up by your side...
and your soulmate kissing your forehead
when he thinks you're sound asleep
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