I would say to not donate it, but to keep the jewelry. Not everyone knows the words that others want to hear. All your husband knew is that he wanted to fix his relationship with you and 'bribing' was all he could think about. Men don't always understand us, nor why we don't like their solution, but if he finds out what you've done with the jewelry it could be disastrous on his feelings of security.

Hopefully you will be able to learn to see what the worth of the jewelry is in a new perspective. However, I'd rather you be cynical than hear about woman automatically wooed by jewels!