I understand downsolong's complaint, I think. I have trouble understanding the why's of it all sometimes too...especially like right now when another of my threads was DELETED.

There's no place to work through understanding it, thread by thread, because then we are discussing admin issues. The frustration is tremendous. When I sent out what I considered to be supportive words to two unnamed members here, it was sensed as discussing a private issue. Yet, there are at least 3 other threads addressing the same issue, more in depth. I only sent out hugs to both and asking what the members here could do to help more. This post will probably also be deleted or edited, or at the very least I will receive a reprimand from admin in a private message. I too, have asked myself once again, What's the point?