Hello, Mulan.
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Originally Posted by mulan
I devoted all my years to my sister, she is older and all my life I've been her fallower, I did respect her. I allways agree with all her opinions, and I let her by on comand, because she likes to control everything...
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You and your sister seem glued together in a rigid roles-relationship; you both are used to playing the same roles vis-à-vis one another. A person can barely grow in that type of situation.
What are the possibilities for moving beyond your sister's influence?
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mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.