I'm a husband and have been dressing in panties and other lingerie items these past 2+ years. I do it for a couple reasons, the main is I do not want to stray on my wife. Her auto-immune disease stops us from being physically intimate. I have gone from wearing her panties and bra to buying my own stuff, she knows of my developed fetish and why I do it. She's not totally ok with it, checks in with me sometimes to make sure I'm not gay. When she does that it really hurts me, wish she'd understand why I dress up sometimes,