I understand that traditionally their are boundaries about this type of expression, but I don't understand why it would be so taboo and thought to undermine the therapy. I guess I don't believe in the therapist's "objectivity." They are human and there is an affective component to the relationship. In the type of therapy I do the relationship is the main focus. Self-disclosure and transparency are considered important parts of the mutuality that is established, which fosters dignity and respect for each other. It seems inevitable that after years of such an intimate connection there would be feelings that if unexpressed would actually be lacking in authenticity. Love is a loaded word but with the care taken in therapy it is pretty clear what it means. I also don't see how it results in some kind of pressure. Maybe someone who gets that part can explain more.