Well, what about saying to your Mom what it is that you want? Ask your question in another way: "I want to get help Mom". You are 2 separate people. She can do what she wants for herself and you can have your own thoughts and feelings and needs for yourself.
What kind of help did you have in mind? Medications are not for everyone, but therapy is. It's good to learn about yourself and to make your life more enjoyable.
I hope you get what you want and what you need and I hope you'll come back and tell us how you are doing!
ECHOES