I was at first reluctant to post about this since I do know it is a controversial topic. But I have learned a lot through the conversation and appreciate all the responses. I'm in training to be a therapist so it is something I too have been taught is not something you do. And I would be quite hesitant and careful actually, no matter what I've seemed to present here. I'm just testing it out to see what people think and feel. Now I have different perspectives to consider which I'll continue to carry with me.