love makes you vulnerable and it hurts when you loose it. If you really loved someone it takes very long time to get over it,somewhere deep inside you will have the pocket of love remaining for the rest of your life.It hurts daily,maybe for years.But you can not seclude yourself from life,live in a bubble of your pain/sorrow.You might fall in love again,very likely ,but only if you give yourself a chance to see the reality,to accept others feelings,not to shut down and drain your life.Nothing will make you forget the pain better then real life (drugs are cover up,that make you more depressed later),and again you will not forget her,but the pain will ease up if you open yourself to life again,with time.while it may take years for pain and hurtful memory to subside,it does not mean it should take years for you to go back to LIFE
good luck