Have started a new thread..........would appreciate your thoughts.....middie x

Heard from my partner's father this evening.......He started phone call saying that he had seen his son today.......that he is very poorly and has had a nervous breakdown.....

I asked if he was in hospital....he said no that he was in a professional environment being helped by professionals.

I am so confused now and don't know what to think.......his next line to me was could he come collect the key to his flat...clothes ....rucksack.....case etc as his son was unable to make decisions for himself and he needed to get into his flat to sort things for him.

I said I only have a spare key and his son had his own main keys and did he not have them ......he didn't answer me just asked if he could come get them.....I repeated same as I did the other day that he was welcome to I would get together what I could but as I had hurt my back during fall I have been advised not to lift and bend and to rest and I was seeing physio etc....he said that he understood ........I asked him if his son had told him that he had knocked me over which resulted in my fall.......he didn't answer me.

I explained that his son only came with a few clothes and that there was 2 years of clothes here that I had bought his son......including suits and shirts etc for him to attend interviews and that there was quite a considerable amount of clothes boots and shoes etc to pack.......and I said that I would pack what I could for him to collect thursday.

I am so confused and don't understand at all.....

His son was very calm with me on the telephone a week on sunday arranging to come over to talk etc and bring his mobile over....saying he loves me and baby ...then monday he is staying with friends and no contact whatsoever with me........then he is having a nervous breakdown and unable to make decisions for himself ????