Yes I do know that he was made redundant he said from a job and then fell into a spiral of smoking pot for a long while and depression.....I am not sure if his parents are aware of that (the smoking part) although I am sure that they must have been. I think they are aware that he had depression and had been seeing counsellors.

They asked him to leave their home when he was at at the local college (?18) as he would not live by their rules and I am sure that he was doing the same thing then. He went to live in a house with lots of people living in and he was living with and had a relationship with a woman with a small child (he was not the father)......it was kinda like an open house where many different people stayed there and from what I can gather they didn't work much and smoked alot. She left to move to Ireland he said.

He has also lived with and had a relationship with a woman older than I am when he was very young.....so I suppose he has a history of wanting to be mothered.

The father seems adamant that he wants this key and clothing. I will make him come in and wait whilst I get the things and have my mother and sister here. I will make sure that I try and ask questions and find out as much information as I can.

I would be embarrassed if my son behaved like this and I had to go round to his partners home and do his dirty work.

I really don't feel his son has been honest with him at all and is giving selective information to his parents.

The fact that I am weeks away from delivery seems to escape them all. When I said about me being on rest and seeing physio for my back due to the fall and not being able to pack his things.......he said could I ask my daughters to do it ???

My eldest works 12hr shifts and the other one is doing A levels and has exams this week......she is also the daughter that witnessed his son knock me over and then she had to come pick me up as his son was trying to drive off in the car and did nothing to help me......I know the answer I would get from her if I asked her to help me pack his things....I don't think I can repeat it on here! I did not tell his father this.

I just think it extreme that he cannot make decisions for himself as his father says ......and yet he can remember exactly what he wants his father to collect for him........I work in the medical field and if he were in such a state I am sure that they would have hospitalised him........his father said he had not been.

IN THE TWO YEARS i HAVE LIVED WITH HIS SON......HE HAS SHOWN NO SIGNS OF CLINICAL DEPRESSION.....FEELING IN LOW IN MOOD.....like I say I am medical and would have seen this.....even when he lost his job......I understand that relationship breakdown can cause this...............however it does not happen literally overnight.

I will think on the key thing......although I think that will be the first thing his father will want when he comes over. I think that his son is using the key thing to make a statement more than anything and I am cross today...... x