Hello rainbow-I might be missing something so I apologize but isn't FB something that is open to anyone who also has a FB account? I'm one of the few people on the planet who doesn't have a FB account so I'm not positive how it works but if you were able to see her account doesn't that mean it's open to public viewing-and if so, how could your therapist be upset with you about that? Yes, a conversation about your viewing of the FB account would be a helpful idea. I think it's wonderful that you are open about these things with your therapist but nothing you have described sounds like a boundary crossing to me and certainly not a reason for your therapist to punish you somehow. I can't think of a reason why it would be okay for your therapist to punish you ever. Anyway-your open manner is great and will be helpful to you in getting what you need.