I want T to take me home and I sit on her couch and watch TV while she deals with her family like a normal mother. Then maybe she asks me if I want to stay for dinner. I say ok. Her son or daughter comes in and looks at me and i am awkwardly introduced. Maybe her husband likewise. Then we sit at dinner, and i nod sheepishly and make some conversation. I listen to everyone being polite on my account. Then later T drives me home.

Scenario 2 is T asks if I want to be hugged and I say yes. Then she hugs me and teaches me to relax in the hug because I am so tense. I eventually just melt into her arms.