Hi, with all due respect I am going to just cut to the chase. Have seen many threads that are too drawn out. I am a married woman who believes in having good strong Christian Morals and Beliefs. However myself and my husband are addicted to porn. It is not the softcore stuff either. I must admit I was addicted to it before but then "got over it". Recently there was an issue in our marriage and I felt one of the ways to try bring things back together was by opening our minds sexually. Yes it was a slight cheating issue on his part, So in essence I fought to get him back to me using the sexual side. It has worked, however I now feel guilty about the way I am going about it. I am by no means saying its all on him as I am the one who looks at it more. That way I feel I have a headstart for want of a better word. I do hope I have not offended anyone in reading this but that is the blatant honest truth. Any advice, help or suggestions are very much appreciated. Thanks so much.