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I feel like I broke something.
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That is a crummy feeling, like it is your fault and now you are in trouble. But maybe she just wasn't quite skillful enough at that particular moment. It sounds like the rest of the session (except the end, about the hug) was hard but okay.
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She needs to be consistent and honestly I was doing okay with the closeness I needed that to keep me secure and grounded and I just feel adrift, as if my dock/harbor keeps moving around and I don't know where it is and I have to find it but when I do it moves again.
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I like this image. What if you talk with her about how you need consistency and if she does have to change something significant you need to be told about and have a chance to discuss your feelings about it?