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Originally Posted by likelife
Sorry, should have asked that more clearly: What's the mix of feelings that come up when she said...?
Or What do you infer about your relationship with T as a result of what she said?
Or What did you hear T say when she said...?
Thanks for calling me out on that non-specific question!
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I thought your question was okay, likelife. I just wonder what your opinion about my situation is. Your questions are a little unsettling but really worth thinking about, especially these last two!
What I infer about my relationship with my T is that, in spite of our close relationship, I am not allowed to be in her life without her permission. We're not friends. She doesn't want me driving by her house because it's crossing her boundary. She's my T, not anything else.
It's confusing to me because I know she likes me very much, so I don't understand why going past her house would be crossing a boundary. I don't see the big deal about it. But anyone in RL can have a boundary I don't like, also. I have a friend who doesn't like me to know if she's going out-of-town. She's very private. I don't understand that either. But it hurts more with T.
What I heard T say was "I don't want you." (I know that's illogical)