That is a crummy feeling, like it is your fault and now you are in trouble. But maybe she just wasn't quite skillful enough at that particular moment. It sounds like the rest of the session (except the end, about the hug) was hard but okay.


I like this image. What if you talk with her about how you need consistency and if she does have to change something significant you need to be told about and have a chance to discuss your feelings about it?