I'll give an example that shows how I was bothered by a "close encounter." I had a "female problem" so I went to urgent care. When the assistant said my doctor's name, it was the same name as my shrink so I assumed that she was just confused by my chart.

Well, I was wrong, terribly wrong. It turned out that it was my shrink's ex-wife that came in. I texted him to ask because I was very uncomfortable about having a pelvic exam by someone he was married to. It just freaked me out a bit, at least at first.

Then I just realized that it's a small town. The doctors all know each other. They're all professional and it really doesn't matter. I think I was just generally uncomfortable about the situation, both having the problem and then having to meet someone he obviously had a difficult time with.