I been thining about my EGO. I consider myself intelligent. I realize though that in converstations with people that there are breaks and that conversations should be allowed to peter out.

I have been less annoying. I was speaking most when I started this topic about the issue to "having a FAIR conversation, with spouse."

So do spouses deserve to be talked to fair? After being with the spouse for a couple years, do I change and let conversations go more my direction. Do I let conversations lead to the ego and less to looking out for the mates equiliberum and peace of mind, since after all he or she is mine now, and anything really goes, afterall they love me unconventionally, What thoughts can we share. It there a point that it is OK to do? Just what is fair, and what is loving? How much is good? How much is bad? Does this conversation matter? Any success stories where the one spouse DID dominate most conversations and the couple did GREAT? Sometimes the man likes "to be led to think, he is in charge, and maybe that isn't a bad idea for us girls to allow, SOMETIMES!"

Thankyou board members and I so totally totally totally appreciate the discourse of my topic. Thankyou, thankyou thanks. Love Robin