Hello and welcome to Psych Central! I'm not sure what you are asking. Hubby and I have seen porn, even more than once at my suggestion--but I don't recommend it as a way of really drawing a couple together. We haven't viewed any in years. I am not addicted to it and could go the rest of my life without it. And, gee, the plots are skimpy......(I am talking more about movies than mags, although we have done both.)

I really don't see it as a healthy behavior, since it is not depicting a love relationship between people who are married. And I feel like the people are just using each other.

I certainly don't like the idea of stepping outside the marriage. To me that would not be a good, moral thing to do. It definitely goes against the not commiting adultery part in Christianity.

Is that what you were wanting?