It must be a very difficult time for you......your head must be full of unanswered questions and your emotions very raw.......could you try sitting down with him somewhere to talk......somewhere neutral where you both have to keep control over your emotions and can talk rationally and calmly and listen to each other.........or maybe with a counsellor and work through your problems......its difficult and no quick fix......but if you love each other worth the long hall.......good luck and let us know how things are going for you.......you will get plenty of support on here.....sending you a hug x