My T once said to me "It's all ME ME ME, what about your husband and how HE feels?!". I was furious and went to her supervisor about it and a couple of other things she had said (she was inexperienced back then) and it all got pretty messy. Weirdly I am still seeing her and we got over it. I do remember it though and it scares me to think she has that side to her.
Sorry you are going through this