I really feel for you. My T too has been amazing in lots and lots of ways but I will never forget the few times that she was less than professional and blurted things out that she shouldn't have. My husband wanted me to quit there and then and my head wanted to as well. I do believe that the therapist has to be the bigger person 100% of the time. They are trained to be strong enough to take what you throw at them. It's not their life that is being discussed after all and there is the old saying in therapy, 'above all, do no harm'. BUT having said all that from a rational point of view, every T is human and can have an off day. I would certainly expect a sincere apology from her and an explanation and take it from there. Only you can judge how sincere she is and how it fits with the way she usually is with you. I don't remember your other threads so am not aware of other problems you may have had with this T. I hope you get out of this what you need and will help you move forward