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Old Nov 28, 2013, 01:04 PM
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Me personally when my dx was new, I didn't care who found out, who I told, and also had this burning sensation to get it off my chest. So I can relate...

That being said, I've changed my perception regarding "outing myself" somewhat. I don't tell anyone unless it comes up, and feel kinda silly that at one point I wanted to tell the world. I mean, my aunt didn't go telling all and sundry about her cancer...

Anyway, even though I've not experienced any negative reactions from those I've told, not all of us are lucky enough to be surrounded by open minded and or supportive people.

Besides, I've always been open about my crazy, long before it had a name. So it really wasn't a shock to anyone, least of all me.

It really depends on the type of relationships you've cultivated over the years, and whether speaking up will help or atleast not hinder.

Don't. I.repeat. Don't tell an employer though,I've heard too many horror stories regarding jumping out of that closet.
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