But thank you, Thunder Bow. For a while I was thinking the problem was interpersonal; like maybe I just have a bad attitude or there is something wrong in my family. But I think we all just feel frustrated and are taking it out on each other. I'm frustrated because I'm 25 and want to be free to live my life already....and I resent my parents controlling me and telling me how to do things. And I think my parents sense that and are unwilling or afraid to let me and my brother (who is older) go. They want to keep us close to them but they don't realize we are adults and our own people. It's not an easy situation but I am doing my best to be patient and find work and study.