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Nov 28, 2013, 02:37 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by Leah123
...I can't imagine how to work through this. I don't want to say anything to her. I know she's fed up with me, so.... will just have to leave it at that I guess, I don't want to go to session or anything, will just wait and see if she says anything I suppose.
Thanks.
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I've been where you are, so I know how hard it is to work this through, and even to think about how to work it through.  I wonder if you could tell her: I'm concerned about sharing some things, because I really really wnat things to work, and I really really don't wnat to be yelled at, and I really really want to be able to get angry, or at least express things that are bothering me about the relationship. Could you tell me how I could have shared what upset you last time in a way that won't upset you next time? or give me guidelines for the future?"
and then see what she says. Maybe you'll like the answer, maybe not. You'll have a lot more information. Would that work? or not?
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