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Originally Posted by blur
when i read your post i read it that your T is saying more that she is tired of the you-statements you make rather than tired of you. you-statements tend to be accusatory and don't foster healthy communication. here's some info about i-statements and you-statements and how i-statements are much more effective. good luck. |
That would almost be like a miracle, if that's what she meant, instead of being sick of me. The way it sounded in the moment was that she couldn't stand how self-absorbed I was, but... your way kinda makes sense too. I just don't know. It seems safer to take it as worst case scenario, but I like your way better.
I asked her to explain, but she would not at the time, she was too tired.