The vacation was sold in January 2009. But most of the money was used to get out of debt, I did put a down payment on a new car, and I prepaid for my funeral. The rest of the money has been depleted just from expences with the house. It's expensive living in the house I'm in and woud like to get into something smaller, even if it's an appartment. My brother and sister kind of understand and my sister said she's willing to forgo her "share" of the house but at some point I'm still expected to give my brother his "share". It's just a thing where I took care of my mother for 6 long years and I just want to move on with my life....not live with the idea that my brother and sister are going to constantly bug me for money. As far as work goes, how I feel about work has nothing to do with my situation at home. Even if everything was fine at home I'd still feel the same way about the place.